Starting your own business as opposed to going with StoresOnline was a good move. They are one of the biggest rip offs going today.
Drop shipping is a solid business to get into, but it is a difficult thing to find legitimate wholesalers on your own. Real ones cannot be found by Googling. Those that you find are called Middlemen. What they do is act as if they are a wholesaler, when in actuality, they are working as a middleman between you and the real wholesaler, hence the name. If you order from them, they jack up the cost to make a profit for themselves and then there is less money for you to make from your customers. It's impossible to stay competitive. Avoid them at all costs.
The best company to work with that I highly recommend is WorldWide Brands, Inc. They are legit, work hard to find the best wholesalers out there and honest. You can find them at
http://www.worldwidebrands.com